Around this time of year, we would generally work on a new year’s resolution. We make a list of things that we want to change and want to do and hope to keep them. However, these resolutions often do not make it to February- let alone the year!
Here are a few very real and slightly unrealistic new years resolutions that people have.
• Quit Smoking- While this is an admirable goal, smoking cannot be quit cold turkey. Just because you make a promise to yourself does not mean you will give up your addiction.
• See more Friends and Family- A great goal! But things will come up. Your job will expect you to work an extra shift or your child will suddenly become ill.
• Get out of Debt- Perhaps the best goal out there, but most often will not happen. Debt is something that often hangs onto you more than a monkey. If you really want to get rid of it, try making a longterm plan.
Some Advice
Yet most people do not make their resolutions. Partially because they are too unrealistic. They want to exercise five times a week or want to go without sugar for a month. But problems will arise and cause you to break those habits- you will twist an ankle or your brother will get married. In order to avoid feeling extreme disappointment and frustration at yourself, try being realistic with yourself. If you have been late constantly for the past 3 months, don’t expect to suddenly be on time because of your new years resolution. Make progressive resolutions that do not require to to change overnight.
One last thing to remember- your do not have to wait until new years to start your goals. You can start working on them today. That way when new years comes around, you are not starting without some experience. Also, new years resolutions may work for some people, while others simply fail. Find the best way to reach your goal.
